How to Nail that First Kiss Photo: Do's and Don’ts
Is the wedding nothing but a drumroll leading up to the most epic first kiss and the declaration to the world that you are married? Sharing a wedding kiss with your partner right after you say, "I do" is one of the most intimate and unforgettable moments of your wedding day. It is surely one of the imperative moments and rates as big as one of the most frame-worthy moments of the day. Your love story starts here, and the first kiss signifies the end of the ceremony and symbolizes the beginning of your journey as a married couple.
Planning and Timing
In short, it's all about tasteful PDA and getting the timing right. We're sure that you must have never put so much thought into something as natural and instinctive as a kiss. "Practice makes progress" is the name of the game. We recommend a lot of practice kisses along the way to get it right on the wedding day. While you may want some sense of spontaneity, having a general idea of your first kiss game plan will help make it perfect. Practicing doesn’t mean memorizing the smooches; instead, it focuses on the duration, the approach, and the hand placement.
How Long Should a Wedding Kiss Be?
Kiss your sweetie long enough for your photographer to take photos, but not so long that it starts to feel awkward for your guests. "I recommend holding the first kiss for at least 3 seconds but probably try to avoid going over 10 seconds," said Molly Majher. You can also share your first kiss for a few seconds, pause, then sneak in one more short kiss to ensure you have a great photo for your wedding album.
Wedding First Kiss Dos
To create a magical wedding kiss moment, keep these wedding first kiss dos in mind when you smooch your spouse for the first time at the altar:
- Savor the Moment: Block out all distractions and solely focus on your new husband or wife. Taking your time to enjoy your wedding kiss also allows your photographer more wiggle room to capture a beautiful shot.
- Move the Officiant: Ask your officiant to please step off to the side before they pronounce you as a married couple. This will give you a clean shot of your first kiss without your officiant's head popping out of the background.
- Set the frame! Decide on the exact center of the arbor where you will say your vows and talk with your officiator whether he is okay with stepping out of the frame.
- Involve the Party: Ensuring that your bridesmaids and the groomsmen look enthusiastic and interested can lead to a good picture.
- Eye Contact: Eye contact is a seemingly essential element to an intimate first kiss. You wouldn’t want to be looking at another person just before you seal the deal.
- One for the Road: I highly encourage you to go in for one more kiss on your way back down the aisle together; 3/4 down the aisle is even better.
Wedding First Kiss Don'ts
Avoid potential disaster and any possible awkwardness for you and your guests with these wedding kiss don'ts:
- Don't Dip Without a Practice Run: We love a great dip moment, but please practice first. You don't want to get so caught up in the moment that one or both of you ends up on the ground.
- Avoid Too Much Tongue: Just try not to get too carried away in front of an audience of family and friends. The altar is not the place for a long, overly-passionate make-out sesh.
- Don't Forget Hugs: A hug before or after the first kiss is a sweet moment to share if you two are the snuggly type.
- Don't Keep Eyes Open: Don’t make the mistake of keeping your eyes open during the moment. Aside from looking bad in front of the lens, it makes the wedding kiss a bit awkward and weird.
- Don’t Let a Fumble Ruin It: So you went in for the kiss, and you fumbled or something felt weird? Go again. Try to nail it the second or third time.
Capturing the Emotions
Stop, relax and refocus. Take your moment and savor it all and go for it. Have multiple wedding photographers capture the moment, that way there's multiple angles, multiple frames, and more options for that perfect capture. Trust us, the wedding photographs will capture the look in your eyes and the sweet emotions crossing over your face, and not the awkwardness, if any! All said and done, it is after all just a kiss with the person you love and will be spending the rest of your life with.