Ultimate Guide to Cutting the Cake & First Dance Photography
Cutting the Cake, the First Dance & Evening Celebrations Wedding Photography are key highlights of the wedding day. Father and daughter enjoying being purely in the moment as they dance together is a perfect example of why your wedding photographer should strive for shots as special as this.
Cutting the Wedding Cake
A short time after the meal, the newly-weds usually cut the cake. This ancient tradition probably stems from ancient Rome, where a wheat cake was smashed over the bride’s head to bring the couple good luck. Thankfully, I’ve never seen this happen at any weddings I’ve photographed, although it would make for some great photos! I don’t advocate smashing anything over anyone’s head at weddings or anywhere else generally.
Wedding Cake Display
The cake is generally displayed prominently throughout the reception for guests to admire and take photos of. Sometimes it’s at the side of the room throughout the day, then brought into a central location for the cutting. This situation suits me more, as sometimes it’s awkward to pose the couple when the table is against a wall or in a corner. If the background isn’t the most aesthetically pleasing, don’t worry – the photographer should make it look much better than in reality.
Consider these real-world examples of cake placement:
- Kolbe & Rebecca: Had a lovely display around their cake, which helped make for a more striking portrait of their cutting.
- Patrick: The cake location wasn’t ideal when he arrived at the reception, so he and a guest moved it for the cutting. The moving made for a nice photo moment too.
- First Dance: The cake was moved again to ensure the best possible spot for the first dance photography.
Posing the Cake Cutting
Often the cutting is announced by a DJ or MC and guests gather round to watch the bride and groom as they cut their first slice of their wedding cake. This can seem a little intimidating for the more introvert couple. Couple’s are always unsure where and how to stand but usually manage a fairly relaxed pose with guidance. The best position is for them to stand to the side of the cake, with the groom’s arms around his bride. He then places his hands over hers whilst she is holding the knife. With encouragement from guests, they generally relax into it and the cutting happens without incident.
Cake Cutting Shenanigans
As a documentary photographer shooting candid moments, the cake cutting never used to appeal to me very much. Then I saw the humour in the situation. Everyone feels a little bit silly, but goes along with it as it’s become an expected part of the day. If you do feel daft during the cutting, feel free to ham it up a bit. Pretend stabbings are popular (be very careful though!) and it also makes for some great photos when the pair feed each other.
The moments just before the serious pose can be the most fun. Soumeya definitely saw the funny side whilst I set up for the shot. I’m always looking out for the more memorable moments such as this. I don’t spend a huge amount of time photographing the cutting of the cake, but have come to realise that there’s more potential in it than first meets the eye.