The Ultimate Guide to Planning Your Choreographed First Dance
Your wedding day is a whirlwind of emotions, a beautiful tapestry woven with joy, laughter, and unforgettable moments. One tradition that truly takes center stage is the first dance as a married couple. It’s a chance to share a special moment on the dance floor, symbolizing the start of your journey together, a silent promise whispered through movement and melody. This guide is your roadmap to turning that dream into reality. Whether you’re a seasoned dancer or have two left feet, we’ll walk you through every step of planning your dream first dance, from choosing a song that speaks to your love story to learning moves that match your style.
Should a First Dance Be Choreographed?
A choreographed first dance can add a unique and unforgettable touch to your wedding. Imagine the surprise and delight on your guests’ faces as they witness a beautifully executed routine that reflects your personality. Learning a dance together can also boost your confidence on the dance floor, and the process itself can be a fun bonding experience. A well-rehearsed dance can be visually stunning, adding an extra layer of elegance to your reception. Remember, the most important thing is to choose what feels comfortable and authentic for you both. If the thought of intricate steps fills you with dread, taking a few dance lessons can equip you with some basic moves that build confidence.
Custom Wedding Dance Packages
We Custom Choreograph Wedding Dance Just For You! We offer tailored packages to suit your needs and timeline. Below is a comparison of our custom choreography options:
| Package Feature | Standard Package | Premium Package |
|---|---|---|
| Dance Length | 1.5-2 minutes | 2-3 minutes |
| Patterns | 3-5 patterns based on your level | 5-10 patterns based on your level |
| Tricks & Lifts | 1-3 basic wedding “tricks” | 5-10 wedding “tricks”/Lifts |
| Preparation Time | At least 1 month prior | At least 3 months prior |
| Subscription | 3 month BF PRO Subscription | 6 month BF PRO Subscription |
Both packages include a step by step video tutorial breaking down the choreography and a video analysis from Chris & Lindsey. You can send us a video of you dancing your choreography and we’ll review it and send you our feedback and tips to clean it up!
Popular Online Wedding Dance Tutorials
Yes, you can learn to dance for your wedding online and quickly, even if you've never danced a day in your life. Like learning a new language, learning to dance takes effort and consistency. Some couples will find this online method of learning even easier than in-person lessons because you will see exactly how the steps are supposed to look before you even try them.
Enchanted - Taylor Swift
This tutorial for Enchanted by Taylor Swift was a custom choreography request by a couple who requested an elegant, yet achievable dance with twirls, dips and large movements around the dance floor. Skill level: beginner. The entire tutorial takes two to three hours to complete, including practice time between steps. This tutorial delivers a classically beautiful first dance that any beginner can learn.
I Get To Love You - Ruelle
This is one of the most beautiful and romantic first dance songs. The choreography is very simple to learn and to execute so you’ll look and feel relaxed, yet polished and sophisticated. Skill level: beginner. The entire tutorial takes three to four hours to complete. You will learn all the movements separately before learning how to put it together with the music.
Practice and Refinement
The key to a successful first dance lies in practice. Schedule regular sessions to rehearse your routine. You’ll still need to practice the dance leading up to your wedding to build muscle memory! If you are a marathon learner, you might set aside several hours on the weekend to learn each step before putting it together into choreography.
Choreography Enhancement Package
For customers seeking adjustments or enhancements to their original choreograph wedding dance, this package provides personalized revisions. It includes:
- Review Session: A 20–30 minute virtual meeting or consultation to discuss specific feedback and desired changes.
- Choreography Adjustments: Up to 3 modifications to the original choreography, focusing on transitions, pacing, or style.
- Revised Video Deliverable: A follow-up video showcasing the revised choreography, with instructions for implementation.
Please note that this is only applicable to the original choreography provided; completely new choreography would require purchasing another custom package.