Non-Traditional First Dance Songs for Your Unique Wedding
Non-Traditional First Dance Songs is a topic that has popped up in my mind the more weddings I document. There are SO many songs out there. Why do we gravitate toward the same few songs, when we could have something totally unique as a “big moment” song instead? I think weddings should radically relate to the couple we’re celebrating. Sometimes, that means leaning toward non-traditional first dance songs, like this post will discuss.
With so many overused songs out there, it can be hard to find a first dance song that feels truly unique and unexpected. As you’re planning your wedding, the first dance can be thought of as one of the most important moments. Choosing a song for this moment can be incredibly difficult! It’s the moment where you and your partner get to shine, and the lyrics of the song chosen can be a reflection of your love story. This is easier said than done!
I know it can feel awkward to dance alone in front of all of your loved ones. Not everyone expresses themselves through dance, but the first dance is a moment for the two of you to share together and I find it so sweet. Don’t worry though, you don’t have to actually know HOW to dance to make this moment powerful. I use this story to encourage couples to think of their wedding day in the same way – it can be whatever you want it to be, and we should always strive for it to FEEL like YOU.
Non-traditional slow first dance songs
This section is for those who love the traditional feel of first dance songs but don’t want an overplayed song. If you’re looking for a more unique, non-traditional songs, you’ve definitely come to the right spot. These all share the same romantic and slow tempo vibe but still surprise your guests.
| Song Title | Artist | Genre / Vibe |
|---|---|---|
| “I Melt With You” | Modern English | 80s New Wave, Romantic |
| “Passionate” | C-Trox | Smooth Rap, Sensual |
| “Leave The Door Open” | Silk Sonic | Soulful, Classic Sound |
| “Dreams” | Fleetwood Mac | 70s Classic, Dreamy |
| “Stay With Me” | Sam Smith | Soulful Ballad, Emotional |
| “Under Your Spell” | Desire | Hauntingly Beautiful Melody |
| “1200 Days” | Erick Baker | Heartfelt Ballad |
Detailed Song Breakdown
- “I Melt With You” by Modern English: This song is a classic new wave hit from the 80s, but its romantic lyrics and dreamy melody make it a perfect choice for a first dance. It’s unexpected, yet still familiar, and it’s sure to be a hit with all your guests.
- “Passionate” by C-Trox: a rap song with a smooth and sensual vibe. The song is characterized by a slow and steady beat, with deep bass and electronic accents. The verses are delivered in a laid-back, conversational flow, while the chorus features a soulful and melodic vocal hook that adds a touch of romance and sensuality.
- “Leave The Door Open” by Silk Sonic (with Bruno Mars & Anderson .Paak): This is a smooth and soulful song with a classic sound that’s perfect for a romantic first dance.
- “Dreams” by Fleetwood Mac: This classic 70s song is a beautiful choice for a first dance, with its slow and dreamy rhythm and heartfelt lyrics. The song’s mellow and calming instrumentation adds to its reflective and contemplative mood, making it a great choice for a couple who wants to slow things down and savor the moment during their first dance.
- “Stay With Me” by Sam Smith: This modern classic has a soulful and emotional tone that would be perfect for a first dance. Sam Smith’s soaring vocals taking center stage. The chorus features a memorable and stirring vocal hook, with the lyrics pleading for a lover to stay the night.
- “Under Your Spell” by Desire: This song is from the movie Drive. I love the hauntingly beautiful melody. Ultimately when you connect with a song, it can be yours to dance to, no question.
- “1200 Days” by Erick Baker: This song is a heartfelt ballad and I’m a big fan.
Playful and upbeat first dance songs
If you’re looking for non-traditional first dance songs that are fun, upbeat, and full of energy, consider these songs. The upbeat rhythm and catchy lyrics will give the opportunity to shine.